[.ca] How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed (ISBN 0963037900)

Waste of time and money:
Wasted my money. Wasted my time. Hurt my ego.

Some Hard-Hitting Dynamics for Getting Laid:
First off, this book is NOT for everyone. A key benefit of this book, is it certainly does expose some of women's "undesirable" behavior for what it really is. Enlightenment is the first step to success. There is no doubt about it. It will take some real confidence and courage to SMOOTHLY pull off some of the "get the girl into bed" strategies in this book. But here's the good part: if you CAN pull them off smoothly, you WILL get laid, period. If you are a perceptive individual, you can glean far more from this book than what is there. If you have absolutely no earthly idea how women think or operate on their deeper levels, you may not get much from this book at this stage. But when you ARE ready... Initially, Jeffries goes through some general methods of meeting women and getting their attention and curiosity (a CRUCIAL necessity in ANY seduction). He states how imperative it is to weed out the garbage from the gems. Why waste your time on a woman who you will go nowhere with anyway? There are plenty more out there who WILL. Jeffries also explains some confidence building techniques. However, if you are a guy who is SERIOUSLY lacking in confidence, this book may not be the right one for you to start out with. Otherwise, you will find the confidence builders to be both unique and effective. The real meat of the book is in the "get the girl into bed" strategies outlined in the last several chapters of the book. It is also the place where the men will be separated from the boys, so to speak. These techniques are based on NLP and a certain "hypno-seduction", if you will. If you can get a woman into a quiet place alone, and apply these techniques with good congruency, you will get the girl into bed. The key to making these techniques work is congruency, and CONFIDENCE. And applied properly, a woman's kinesthetic and sexual senses will be so "overwhelmed" that I don't see how she could NOT sleep with you! And I can say this from firsthand experience. But to put it bluntly, you got to have the balls to do it smooth. I suspect most men probably won't or don't. Ross has certainly come a long way since the writing of this book as far as the seduction technology goes. But on the whole, this book can make an excellent primer to the world of very fast and effective Speed Seduction; something EVERY man should know. In short, the techniques in this book will work properly if you do, and that's a big "IF." If you're an intellectual turnip with balls the size of peas, DO NOT BUY THIS BOOK. It is for the SERIOUS seducer who is ready to DIVE INTO the serious world of getting laid fast and ONLY fast. Leave slow seduction to the chumps who insist on traditional dating, blowing money, who never get laid, and get blown off instead of *blown* by women!

Please guys, try the techniques first, THEN post a review!!!:
After reading the other reviews, I noticed how most of the negative reviews say things like: "Well, I am sure it may work on some girls sometimes, but..." "I suppose this book would work on woman who had the IQ of a tomato" "This is not going to work, you will humiliate yourself" and so on. Look close to this kind of statements. What's implied in this statements full of words like: "MAY", "I SUPPOSE", "PROBABLY", "WILL"? The meta-message in this opinions is that the reviewers NEVER have tried the techniques in the real world with real woman. Why they always say: "This will not work", instead of:"This doesn't work" ? Because the NEVER have tried to use them. They are making assumptions and making pre-concepts. In my opinion, is not a fair way to make a review of Ross Jeffries work. In my opinion, I just give the book 3 stars because is not the best of Jeffries, I recomend instead to buy his Home Study Course or the Hyper-Response video tapes, because the material is new and more efective. But the techniques do work, IF you make a minimal effort in apply them in the real world.

Much Better Than R. Don Steele's Nonsense:
This 11-year-old book should be looked upon as a great introduction to the NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) that the talented Ross Jeffries pioneered in using in one's love life. Ross is to be commended for being original and creative, far better than the elderly John White, who uses the pen name of R. Don Steele, and, who "borrowed" the few strategies that actually somewhat work in John White's silly approach. Ross has CDs and videotapes that reflect the continuing progress he has achieved as a dating guru thru the years. Washington state and just now, in 2003,California have started nailing men who live with or marry single mothers for child support, even when the child is not the new guy's offspring. All the more reason for men to have a definite set of dating skills and not settle for bottom feeders. Again, most men will find this to be an introduction and not a stand-alone product.

Great Beginning:
If you dont feel like this book wont work for you, your probably right. This book is weak stand alone, but with the rest of his materials, which you can find on his website, You'll find your greatest fansaties start to look like child's play. If youd rather not spend the extra money on his other materials, you might as well skip all of the 3rd section, as with such a vague description of what to do, you'll nearly never succeed. However the first 2 chapters alone are worth the price of the book. I dont really have time to go in depth with this, but all i can say is pick the book up. Really, even if you dont like it, its cheap, and I guarantee youll learn at least 2 or 3 things that will make the cost more than worth it.