Ceremonies of the Heart: Celebrating Lesbian Union (ISBN 1878067877)

A fine mix of history and modern examples.:
Further proof that you can have any sort of wedding you jolly-well want, this book features several firsthand accounts of the planning and experience of commitment ceremonies. It starts with a very educational section on the history of lesbian relationships in the Western world, which I would highly recommend to anyone ignorant on the subject. This isn't a wedding planner and doesn't advertise itself as such, but it's an excellent introduction to the subject of women marrying women.

Not so much...:
In searching for a guide to lesbian wedding planning, my partner-to-be and I encountered this book at the local glbt bookstore. We were both sadly disappointed by the lack of up-to-date information and the antiquated nature of the content. Perhaps due to the time period in which the book was written, many of the women were estranged from their families and seemingly on the fringes of society. We had difficulty identifying with any of them. A more current version is desparately needed!